HOW TO MAKE THE MOST OF IT

When You Get Back

Often one of the forgotten elements, the return home can influence the overall tone of the trip. We show you how to keep France and French in your life.

Reverse culture shock

You’re at the check-out at the grocery store in your home town. For some reason the total doesn’t match the price listed. You point out this mistake to the cashier who then gently reminds you about sales tax. Sounds like you just got back from France. You’ll probably find that daily life in France has become so natural that you have to readjust to being home. Little things will stand out, such as the size of cars and meals. You might miss walking everywhere. Immersion in a different culture makes you much more aware of yourself and your own society.

Keep up the momentum

You have just put in all this effort to learn French. It would be a shame to lose it. It is extremely important to maintain your French when you return. Too many people lose their language skills because they don’t have a way to practice. The best way to practice is to talk with native speakers. Did you get the contact information of several French people while you were abroad? Don’t hesitate to call or write them! Most people in France extend offers of friendship only when they really mean it. Pen pals or email buddies are great. They will certainly invite you back, and you can do the same.

The expatriate community is alive and well in the United States. Tap into it! Join forums or clubs. Internet networking sites have made it easier to get in touch with people who share your interests. Publications in French keep the community in touch. The Alliances françaises offer courses and opportunities for conversation. Go to French movies. Read a French book. Take pleasure in the fact that you had a one of-a-kind experience. La vie est belle.